• project 365-2017; days 78-84

    This week was Spring Break for us. Luke took a few days off work, which is always a welcome treat, but we had a lot to do with regards to the house project so it didn’t quite feel like a vacation. We had ideas of taking the girls to Indianapolis for a night or doing something a little more exciting, but we really just stayed close to home (with the exception of a one night excursion to New Albany, Indiana, which I wrote about in my recent tree house update). I think the girls enjoyed the week regardless, but I couldn’t help but feel guilty (and a little jealous) that we didn’t plan something out of the ordinary for them. I had this conversation with friends over lunch this week — if it weren’t for social media showing me what everyone else was doing, I would probably think our Spring Break was just fine. We spent time together. We enjoyed eating out more than usual. We visited family. We got to see Papa during daytime hours. Comparison is the thief of joy, and I must remember that…always.

    So, here is a glimpse at our Spring Break. Call it ordinary. Call it boring. Call it whatever… but we call it ours.

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    Luke gets the tire swing spinning so fast it makes me sick to watch, but these girls eat it up. They couldn’t stand up once they got off the swing because they were so dizzy, but their smiles tell you they wouldn’t have it any other way!

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    Charlotte hasn’t been allowed to watch YouTube videos for a few weeks because she gave that up for Lent (thank you, Jesus…literally). However, she has had fun exploring some educational apps, and Noelle was being a good big sister and reading the directions to her.

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    Noelle mastered her little bike, so we followed through on our promise to get her a “big girl” bike. She is so proud of this thing and is doing great riding it through the neighborhood. 

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    The big girls were distracted by something else, so when I found Shiloh, she was quietly playing with their Legos. I am sure the quiet part was on purpose as she didn’t want to be found, but I couldn’t resist a shot of her adorable little ponytail (and yes, she loves this dress/shirt — she is photographed in it weekly!).

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    One of our excursions this week took us to the girls’ favorite dessert place, Berry Winkle. It has been brutal having gestational diabetes and watching them enjoy their treats, but I suppose I am willing to deal with it to see their happy, messy faces.

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    Luke had to leave for a conference toward the end of this week, which really put a damper on the end of Spring Break. We all miss him terribly when he is gone. 

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    As previously mentioned, I am on my own for a few days. I try to pass the time by doing fun things with the girls. I built a fort in the living room, gave them frozen pizza, and they enjoyed popcorn while watching a movie. I am relieved that it still takes very little to make them so happy.

  • The one about the tree house: lots of progress and bargain shopping

    Over the last couple of weeks, the tree house has really started to take on new life (and shape). The demo of the existing house has been completed, and now the new foundation is under way. I have learned about “footers” and other construction terms, and I have also spent a lot of time nodding blankly while Luke talks about things I can’t even pretend to understand.

    Standing in front of the existing fireplace that we will refinish. Directly behind us will be the great room (dining room/living room/part of kitchen).

    Looking out into what will be the great room. Over the basement will be the kitchen, master bedroom and bathroom, and the kids’ rooms and bathroom will bump out at an angle to the right of the basement (you can see the excavation and footers for that if you look closely).

    We are finally starting to make some decisions regarding flooring, the exterior materials, and bathroom fixtures. It has been very overwhelming to say the least! When you look things up on Pinterest, it is super fun, but when it comes to pulling the trigger and committing to something, it gets a little scary!

    Of course, we are trying to stay under budget, so that has caused us to become pretty resourceful when it comes to scouting sales, closeouts, and other ways to save money. The girls were on Spring Break this week, so Luke took some time off so we could do a little shopping. We packed up the girls, hitched our newly-purchased trailer to Luke’s Suburu, and we headed South to visit Luke’s oldest brother and his family near Louisville. We took the opportunity to go to a discount tile warehouse in Lexington (Kentucky Tile Closeouts) since we were only about an hour and a half away. We were hopeful that we would find tile for our bathrooms and kitchen for a great price.

    When we arrived, the building was locked up with a sign saying they were closed for Spring Cleaning, even though we checked the website and their “Spring Cleaning” was supposed to end the previous week. We were both incredibly frustrated by this…. swearing and other “ear muff”-worthy behavior ensued…. but Luke decided to call the phone number on the website and see if anyone could let us in. Within about 20 minutes, someone came over to open the warehouse for us and allow us to shop since we had driven so far and the website was incorrect. I guess when you travel from out of state to shop, you better call to make sure they are open, even if their website says they are.

    The lady who let us in informed us that she needed to leave in about 30 minutes, so we instantly felt rushed and overwhelmed. We began to frantically pace around the warehouse and quickly eliminate tile that we knew we were not interested in. We were able to quickly separate the tile that we liked and the tile we didn’t care for. We settled on a gray, linen texture, rectangular tile for our master bathroom, the kids’ bathroom, and the guest bathroom. For all 3 bathrooms, it was only $340 for the tile. We felt like this was a good deal. Given that we only had about a half hour to look through a warehouse full of tile, when the store was actually supposed to be closed, I would say we got pretty lucky. I have found that pregnancy helps the sympathy factor. The lady who let us in knew that I was pretty frustrated and felt rushed, so she gave Luke a wooden vase to make me feel better. 🙂

    The tile we chose was priced at $1.19 per square foot. I have found it online for around $4.19 per square foot. I am happy with this deal!

    Silver Melody 12×24″ by Rhyme

    We stayed the night with Luke’s brother and his family. With plenty of room still on our trailer, Luke’s brother called in a favor to a local business owner and asked if we could get in to shop (even though it was also closed) a really awesome store full of the most random, amazing things. The shop is called Kentuckiana Trading, and if you are ever near Borden, Indiana, it is worth stopping in! The owners buy new overstock items and then sell them to the public for around 50% off the sticker price. There are 3 or 4 huge stock rooms full of everything from furniture to lighting to bathroom fixtures (like sinks and toilets)…exercise equipment, kitchen gadgets, toys, home decor, etc. It was overwhelming, but we got lucky and found some great items! We could have bought more, but the trailer had reached its limit.

    We bought two vessel sinks for the kids’ bathroom for $25 each. We looked up the item numbers while we were shopping, and you can see that these same sinks on Overstock.com are over $370 each (WHAT?).

    American Imaginations Oval Vessel Sink

    I love this starburst light we snagged for $60. I have no idea where it will go yet, but we couldn’t pass it up.

    I can’t remember the brand of the one we bought – this one is similar

    This coffee table will be perfect in the great room. You can purchase it from Pier One for  around $350. We got it for half of that price.

    Pier 1 Takat Coffee Table

    I might have had to beg Luke for this crib, but thankfully, he caved. Of course, he said we already have two cribs, why do we need this one? But I have wanted this style of crib for years, and we just never could justify the cost. We actually bought our first crib from Craigslist for $50. It is the drop-side style that you aren’t supposed to use anyway. Our second crib (because Charlotte was still in the first crib when Shiloh was born…and I am a crib-for-life kind of mama) was free! So, I feel like we more than got our “money’s worth” out of those cribs, and now our little guy can have something new and special. You can find it online for around $280-$300. Again, we paid half price for this crib.

    Babyletto Modo 3 in 1 Crib

    This is definitely part of the home building process that I find the most fun. I love searching for deals and sales. It makes me so happy to pay a fraction of the cost for items that we love. Nothing about this process is cheap, but every little bit that we can save will add up over the course of this journey.

    I say this all the time, in every post, to anyone I talk to, but I am so thankful for Luke and all the time he has put in to making sure we are doing this right. From spreadsheets to file folders to meetings on meetings on meetings….he has been amazing. His mind is like no other — extremely detail-oriented and thinks of everything. I am proud of him and am happy to just stand back and watch him work.

    We look forward to the progress that will take place over the next few weeks. If the weather cooperates, we should start to see something that actually looks like a house in the very near future. I have a feeling the fun (and headache) is just beginning!

  • project 365-2017; days 71-77

    Highlights from this week… entering the last trimester of pregnancy… the beginning of Spring Break… hopefully our last snowflake for the season… another week in the life of our family.

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    This pregnancy has been difficult for me emotionally. Not only am I dealing with the constant battle in my mind regarding whether or not this will be our last child, but I am struggling with feeling uncomfortable with the way I look. It’s a long story that maybe I will write about in the future, but my body image is in complete shambles — so it took some serious guts to take this photo of myself. However, regardless of how I feel about my looks… I want to remember this time in my life and what it felt like to carry this special child.

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    The girls love doing crafts with stickers, glue, fuzzy pom poms, and anything else they can get their hands on. I just love to see them working together and Shiloh in a ponytail.

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    We got a little bit of snow this week. The weather has been so random and weird, but leave it to a child to enjoy it, no matter what! She immediately stuck her tongue out in hopes of catching a flake or two.

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    Shiloh gave herself a marker makeover about 5 minutes before we needed to leave the house. I asked her to show me her lips, and this is the face she made. You have to love it, right?

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    Noelle was literally jumping for joy at her dismissal on the last day before Spring Break. 

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    We got Noelle an Osmo for her birthday. If you don’t know what it is, Google it, because it is a super cool, hands-on, educational tool that works with your iPad. She was enjoying the tangrams game.

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    Charlotte is exponentially more needy at bedtime than our other girls. She needs tickles, snuggles, songs, stories, beverages, and often times a few “put-backs” into her bed. She has always been this way. I keep hoping she will grow out of it, but then I would miss out on sweet things like this. I am not exactly sure what Luke was doing, but they were both giggling.

  • project 365-2017; days 64-70

    Ok, wow! 70 days into this photo challenge. I think this is further than I went the last time I attempted Project 365 in 2015. Let’s keep it going!

    As I was pulling up the photos for this week, I noticed that Noelle and Shiloh were photographed more than Charlotte. Other weeks, Charlotte is photographed more than the other two. It is interesting to see how some weeks, certain children hold more of the “spotlight” or command more attention than others. I love all of my girls equally, dearly, and (quite honestly) differently as they require different acts of love from me — but they are all beautiful and so fun to capture on camera.

    We had a really busy week. Noelle turned 7 years old and had her first “school friend” birthday party. We also celebrated the other March birthdays in our family, including Luke’s mom and dad (his dad and Noelle share a birthday) and our niece, Alice. We made more headway in the demolition of the Tree HousE, and a group of my sweet friends threw me a surprise baby shower (no photo of that in this post, but I had to highlight it as it was so unexpected and truly caught me off guard)!

    Scrolling through this post of seemingly ordinary photos reminds me to find the beauty in all things and to thank God each day that I have with my family. I am truly blessed.

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    I love the passion this child has for brushing her teeth. She’s a go big or go home kind of gal.
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    Just a couple weeks ago, this kiddo was nervous as heck to take the training wheels off. Now she cruises down the street with no problem at all. She has earned her new bike!
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    The girls love messy things like sand and play doh. I am thankful that we have had some nice days so the mess can stay outside where it belongs!

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    Oh, this child. Charlotte’s dinnertime photo for the week! Such a silly girl. As you can see, it was Chick-Fil-A for dinner as Mama was feeling lazy.

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    Something about squeaky clean babes. If you look close enough, you will see scratches on Shiloh’s face from her many scuffles with big sister Charlotte. The girls are tough and absolutely do not need to be boys to be a little rowdy!

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    I snapped some photos of Noelle in her special birthday Free Dress outfit (the students get a Free Dress day on their birthdays). She loved this skirt and how it twirled, and I absolutely love the light coming from behind her curls. It is insanity to me that this baby girl is 7 already.

    Here’s a bonus picture for the week. Noelle had a painting party where Meghan from Works of HeART came and taught the girls how to paint a cute elephant on canvas. They also got to decorate cupcakes on paint palettes. All but 2 of the girls in Noelle’s class could come, and it was so fun watching them all play and sing and celebrate together. Noelle was slightly embarrassed when it was time to sing “Happy Birthday.” She was stone-faced the entire time until something, or someone, caused her to crack a smile. 

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    As mentioned above, Noelle shares her birthday with Luke’s dad. Luke’s mom had her birthday a week before, and little Alice turned 2 just a few days ago. All of the cousins came to celebrate with the birthday people over the weekend. That would be 14 kids ages 10 and under! They always have the best time playing together and miss each other so much in between visits. 
  • project 365-2017; days 57-63

    Birthdays to celebrate, major progress on our house, a Thyroid Going Away Party, and the beginning of Lent… we had a fulfilling week! As Spring gets nearer, our calendars are getting busier, and I have to remind myself, “Oh yeah, you’re having a baby in a few months!” We are taking things as they come…one day at a time. I hope you enjoy this week’s photos.

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    We made a quick trip to New Albany and back last weekend to celebrate Luke’s grandma, Mary Ruth, turning 86 years old. We had a great time celebrating with family. Luke’s dad is one of 11 children, and of those 11 children, most of them have 2-3-4-5 children of their own, and most of them now have 1-2-3 children of their own…so we overcrowded her tiny house to shower her with love. I think she looks pretty stunning. I love how the second image shows just a small fraction of the little ones surrounding her, and how eager they were to help her blow out her candles.

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    We took a drive out to the country to check on the progress of the house demo. This was Noelle’s reaction as she examined the aftermath. My thoughts, too, Noelle.


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    Noelle has started reading Charlotte’s Web at school. She is so into it and asked for her own copy for her birthday. Spoiler Alert: We bought her one. I was going to move Luke’s coffee cup out of the way of this photo, but then I realized that it suited her. She’s an old soul. Responsible. Diligent. Perfectionist. It just seems like she should be drinking coffee, too.

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    Ash Wednesday. Enough said, right?
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    Aunt CeCe had to have her thyroid surgically removed this week, so we made some special thyroid-shaped cookies for a family dinner. Yes, there are thyroid-shaped cookie cutters. Shiloh stood here on a stool making funny faces into my mixing bowl for several minutes.

     

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    The girls wanted their nails painted. It was difficult for Shiloh to wait for them to dry, as shown by the exasperation on her face. Thank goodness for iPads and Moana on digital copy.

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    We had a super random, super rare date night. It included dinner, walking around Target, walking around Wal-Mart, and coming home. Fancy, right? Oh, this season of life we are in. But it was great to have a few hours to ourselves and not worry about the girls or life or anything. When we got home, all the girls were in bed, until this little one came wandering out. Pictured here is her hard sell for some milk that will “make her go to sleep.” Ok, Char. Whatever you want.