• the one about the rebound stitch fix

    I think, if my memory serves me correctly, this is my fifth Stitch Fix. I am calling this my “rebound” Stitch Fix because my fix prior to this one was bad. Just bad. I ended up keeping two items from it, which doesn’t sound too terrible (and I do wear the jeans from that fix pretty much round the clock, daily), but the items I didn’t keep were downright yucky.

    My faith in Stitch Fix was wavering. Could I trust it again? Could I get my hopes up, only to be disappointed, again? Would I be able to put the past behind me and move forward in my relationship with Stitch Fix? Have I been a fool all along?

    Well, I had some credit from referrals and a Mother’s Day gift, so I decided to give it another try. I pretty much reamed the stylist in the feedback of the previous fix, which I feel is the only way to really get some different items. You can’t be wishy-washy and say everything was “just OK.” You need to include specific details about what you did and did not like, and it’s ok to throw in words like “horrible” and “disgusting.” It gets the point across.

    I scheduled this most recent fix for the week of my birthday. I thought it would either be a super fun gift to myself, or a huge disappointment, but I was willing to take the risk.

    In her note, the stylist mentioned my birthday and also my Pinterest board, so at least she was attempting to match some items to the ideas I had pinned.

    I asked for fun florals or bright prints and patterns, and I definitely received those this time around. I was pretty pleased at the selection and diversity in the fix. I was given three tops, a fun, flouncy skirt, and a tote bag. I actually really liked the tote and was excited to receive it.

    Most notably, this time, were the prices. I ripped the stylist a new one about the cost of some of the previous items. I believe it was something like $60 for a yellow cotton tank top that I could easily buy at Target for $9.99. I let her know that I was never, ever going to pay that kind of money for an item like that, and I was pleased to see that every item in this fix was under $55, and most of them were under $50. Much better!

    I kept everything this time, and I look forward to continue to rekindle my fire for Stitch Fix in the future. I am thinking of scheduling an early Fall fix in September or so. I also am going to make specific requests for dresses. I have barely any casual dresses that I can wear to teach preschool in or out around running errands. I have acquired quite a few tops and a couple great pairs of jeans via Stitch Fix, and now I’m ready to add some dresses to my wardrobe. I don’t have a great “dress” figure…meaning I have the shape of a boxy major home appliance with no natural waist. It isn’t easy to find dresses that flatter AND do not make people question if I am pregnant or not. I am looking forward to challenging the stylist and am already mentally preparing myself for the experience.

    Here are my items:

    1. Le Lis Truxton Embellished Crew Neck Blouse

    (The color is navy, though it photographs black.)

    I loved this the second I laid eyes on it. I loved the subtle floral pattern, the flowy shape, and the embellished neckline. I really do not wear costume jewelry at all, so this gives the neckline some sparkle without having to wear a necklace. I wore it to my birthday dinner with my husband, and it paired perfectly with my Just Black dark denim jeans I purchased a few fixes ago.

    2. 19 Cooper Astair Abstract Print Blouse

    (You guys. This photo is horribly blurry. Horribly. Once I realized how bad it was, I seriously was too lazy to reshoot it.)

    I was excited to receive an abstract print top. I really love all the geometric, Aztec-type prints right now, and this top not only had a fun print but also a great color. It’s a really great coral-red, and it looks great with jeans. In the style cards, they show this paired with a white pencil skirt. I’m not sure pencil skirts are in my future, but I could do white pants or jeans. This is why I enjoy the style cards– I wouldn’t normally think of that combination.

    3. Fun2Fun Holsten Crochet Trim Blouse

    (Kinda has a granny-chic look to it, right?)

    This is probably the top I was least excited about upon initial inspection. I wasn’t crazy about the print. However, when I tried it on, the little sleeves were very flattering. You have to give everything a chance. You never know if you’re going to surprise yourself by liking something you wouldn’t have looked at twice at the store.

    4. Pixley Hanneli Polka Dot Swing Skirt

    (Before you ask me my diet secrets, please know this skirt is folded in half on the hanger.)

    This skirt is really cute. It’s flowy and flouncy. I think circle skirts are adorable, and this one has a retro feel as well. The stylist actually suggested pairing this with the coral abstract print top…and maybe I will get the guts to try that. Regardless, I felt this skirt would be easy to dress up with heels and jewelry or dress down with sandals and a basic tank top.

    5. Street Level Huron Reversible Magnetic Closure Tote

    (The interior is this ivory color, which it can reverse to. This is the matching coin purse/pouch that came with the bag.)

    While I wasn’t really looking for a tote, I was pleasantly surprised to receive one. I like the size of this tote. It is not too big or overpowering. For me, the larger bag you have, the more crap you throw in it. I am trying to simplify my life, and often I go out with just my wallet and no purse or even a diaper bag. This tote can accomplish the task of carrying a couple diapers and wipes, my calendar, my wallet, and a few other necessities like snacks to smuggle into the movie theater. It is also reversible and came with a cute clutch/wallet. The interior is a warm white color. The material is very soft, and the gold has a matte finish with a subtle sheen– not gaudy or tacky.

    Are you curious about giving Stitch Fix a try? You can visit my first post about Stitch Fix to learn more about the process. If you decide to sign up, I’d love it if you would use my referral link, which earns me $25 in credit when you schedule your first shipment!

  • the one about my disappointing stitch fix

    Well, it was bound to happen.

    After keeping all 5 of my items in my last Stitch Fix, it was only a matter of time before I had a disappointing “fix.”

    I have had four Stitch Fix deliveries. I only kept one item from my first shipment, then kept three items from my second, and all five from my third. I ended up keeping two items from my fourth and most recent fix, but the three rejected items were so bad that it has almost made me give up Stitch Fix altogether.

    Almost.

    So what was so bad? Well…everything from the pricing to the styling to the fits…most everything just seemed a bit off.

    I was really excited for this shipment because I had another $75 in referral credit (thank you to all who have used my link to sign up!) and a gift certificate I had received from my husband for Mother’s Day (did ya’ll see that cute post he wrote about me?). I was hoping to receive another “keeping it all” fix and end up not having to pay a cent out of my own pocket!

    I had asked my stylist to pick some pieces that would be bright, floral, fun, and perfect for Summer. I am going on vacation to South Carolina in June, so something to add to my suitcase for that trip would be lovely. I follow Stitch Fix on Pinterest and Instagram, and I have seen some great trends popping up, so I made sure to fill my own Pinterest style board with colors and patterns and styles I had my eye on. I was hoping my stylist would check out my board while picking items for me.

    I will admit that I was a little bummed from the get-go because the box my fix came in was very small. I  immediately assumed there wouldn’t be room for a great dress or pair of pants simply because it didn’t look like they could fit inside the small box. I was worried they included jewelry, which I specifically asked them not to because I simply have no use for costume jewelry at this stage in my life.

    When I opened the box, I was thrilled to see that a new pair of jeans were folded inside. My hopes were lifted as I unwrapped the package and began to pull out the items. I was liking the colors– pinks, yellows, teals, florals.

    Fist pump!

    The note my stylist wrote referenced my Pinterest board and some of the items I had been pinning, so I was excited she at least visited my board once or twice.

    I went for the jeans first. They are Just Black Nickola Distressed Ankle Skinny Jeans. I have been obsessed with my Just Black jeans I received two fixes ago.  They are literally the only jeans I wear now, and I have absolutely loved them. They were worth every penny in my opinion. So, I was happy to receive another pair in a different style. My very first fix sent me heavily distressed jeans that were far too young looking for me, so I was concerned that these distressed skinnies would be a no-go. However, they have very minimal distressing and just have kind of a “lived-in” look. No weird fading across the butt or anything like that. Just Black jeans are SOOOO comfortable. I just couldn’t turn them down.

    The next item I tried on was the Fun2Fun Charles Embroidered Trim Blouse. I really liked the pink color as well as the detailing on the bottom. It fit pretty well, and I thought it would be an easy top to dress up or dress down. I don’t own anything like this, and the price was very fair — $38. I decided to keep it.
    Next was the Laila Jayde Patricia Racerback Knit Tank. I loved the color and relaxed nature of this tank top, but it was truly just a cotton tank top. Nothing special about it. I didn’t lose 25 pounds when I put it on. It wasn’t made of gold or ostrich feathers. That’s why I was perplexed when I saw it was priced at $54 dollars. Seriously? Was that typo? Because I saw this exact thing at Old Navy for $14.50. I wasn’t pleased about this. The price was borderline offensive. Into the return bag it went.
    I was surprised that a dress was included in this fix (given the small box everything came in)– the Pixley Ohara Faux Wrap Tie-Waist Dress. The color was pretty enough, and the fabric was a stretchy jersey knit. I wasn’t crazy about the pattern on the fabric, and I absolutely hated the style. I do not look good in wrap dresses. At all. I have no natural waist (even when I’m thinner), and these always   look so terrible on me. I think the stylist picked it because of the deep V-neck and the ease of breastfeeding, but still. Blech. 
    I tried the dress on anyway, because I believe in the idea that the stylist might have better taste than I do, but I was not surprised to see that the dress was hideous on me. 
    As I was looking at myself in the mirror, I noticed that there was supposed to be a tie to string through the loops on the side, but yet there was no tie included with the dress. I looked in the box, on the floor, in the tissue paper, inside the other clothing items, but no tie was to be found. I was irritated by this because what if I would have loved that dress? I still wouldn’t have purchased it because it looks silly without the tie in the loops. Clearly, this was a mistake on Stitch Fix’s part, but it only added to my disappointment and annoyance with this fix. 
    Lastly, I tried on the Skies are Blue Page Flutter Sleeve Blouse. Initially, I was kind of excited about this top. I liked the colors in the floral print, and I really enjoy the airy, flowy fabrics these days. However. HOWever. This top was so bad. Just, so bad.
    It had ZERO shape. ZERO ability to flatter anything I was working with. And the pattern, the more I looked at it, reminded me of a really, really terrible, old bed sheet. You know, the kind that still smells like whatever 1932 smelled like. I couldn’t get it off of me fast enough.
    So, two keepers, and three that I will probably have nightmares about later. I have to admit, I was pretty disappointed and very frustrated with this fix. I gave everything very critical and specific feedback, and I can only hope my next one is a dramatic turn around. I am scheduled to receive another one just prior to my birthday in July.
    I had to do some thinking about whether or not I wanted to continue this experience. Now that I have experienced what others have in a disappointing shipment, do I wish to continue? Or should I just go back to buying my own clothing items in an actual store?
    Well, I decided to schedule another shipment for a few reasons. 
    1) I truly enjoy the anticipation of my next fix. I have always loved that part of Christmas– even better than actually receiving a gift is just the anticipation of it. 
    2) I absolutely do not have the time nor the motivation to shop for clothes for myself. These items are higher quality items. It would be like going to a department store in a mall or a boutique versus going to Target or Wal-Mart. I don’t even know the last time I went to a mall, and I certainly don’t know the last time I went when I had the freedom to shop for myself. 
    3) Some argue that Stitch Fix is too expensive. I agree that the $54 cotton tank top was absolutely ridiculous. However, most of the items I feel are fairly priced, albeit more expensive than the clothes at Target. What I have found is that when I am awaiting a shipment from Stitch Fix, I do not even really browse the clothes anywhere else because I know I have some coming. So instead of spending $20 here or $25 there on a random shirt that won’t even look the same after I wash it, I am holding out for a higher priced, higher quality item. 
    4) I am receiving advice from a person who probably knows more about looking stylish than I do. Even though she didn’t hit a home run this time, I still came away learning more about what I like and don’t like when it comes to what I wear. 
    5) The items I have purchased have been my favorite items to wear. I am constantly reaching for these pieces, which must mean that I am feeling good about wearing them. And isn’t that what we are all searching for? Clothing that makes us feel good when we wear it?
    While I was bummed about this fix, I am hoping that my feedback will steer us back in the right direction. 
    Til then, I am going to start making yellow cotton tank tops and selling them for $54 because CLEARLY I am in the wrong business.
    If you’d like to give Stitch Fix a try, click my referral link and get started! I get $25 credit for each person who schedules a fix using this link
  • the one about my third stitch fix experience

    In case you don’t know by now…I LOVE Stitch Fix.

    Like, really love it.

    And I love it even more because my last shipment was a total success, meaning I kept all 5 items!

    Don’t know what Stitch Fix is? You can check out my first two reviews here and here for more information!

    I decided to take actual photos of my items this time, since I love them so much. I’m also going to go through the pricing and how to save a little money on your fixes!

    Just for a little background info… I set my price settings at “the cheaper the better” for everything except bottoms and dresses. I am willing to pay just a little more for those items.

    I also haven’t ever made specific requests for items that Stitch Fix posts on Instagram, Facebook, or Pinterest. I know some people do that in their notes to their stylists, but I think that leads to disappointment if they don’t receive the items, and I like to have pretty low expectations. I enjoy being surprised!

    1. Skies are Blue Topanga Crochet Detail Flutter Sleeve Blouse

    Love: The romantic, feminine feel of this top! I also love the lace details and that it feels like a tank top, yet it isn’t a tank top (because hi underarm jiggle!). I am also a sucker for white, ivory, off-white, etc. 
    Don’t Love: My girls will have this thing painted in chocolate finger prints in no time…so I will save it for a date night or other special occasion like a solo trip to Target.
    2. Market & Spruce Xander Short Sleeve Woven Back Sweatshirt

    Love: Easy going fit, loose and flowy. I adore that peach sheer fabric in the back. This shirt feels very casual without being sloppy. (It’s wrinkled because I wore it yesterday!)
    Don’t Love: It is just a tad boxy, which can make me look fat, pregnant, or both…but overall it’s not unflattering. 

    3. Octavia Henry Birds on Branch Infinity Scarf

    Love: The minty color and the birds! This scarf is HUGE! The stylist thought it could double as a nursing cover, and it definitely could! It is very light weight and airy.
    Don’t Love: What’s not to love?
    4. Gilli Koko Maxi Dress

    Love: The royal/navy blue color! The stylist chose this for the deep V neck, which is easy to nurse in. This is a stretch-jersey material, so it is very easy and comfortable to wear, but can also be dressed up nicely. 
    Don’t Love: The price was steep for a rather plain dress. I could find something similar at Target for less money, but there’s a reason I ended up purchasing it anyway. More on that later. 
    5. Dear John Finnegan Roll Cuff Chino Short

    Love: The navy/white pinstripe! I also loved the length…not too long, not too short. They are very comfortable and will help me look pulled together in the hot summer months. Since I won’t be 7 months pregnant on bed rest this summer, I will have actually wear clothes instead of a tank top and underwear. Damn.
    Don’t Love: Really, nothing! At first, I was annoyed that I received shorts because I don’t enjoy showing my legs off, but they were very flattering and a great pick for me. 

    Now that you’ve seen the clothes, you might actually want to know the cost of this box. The total price of all the items before any discounts was $252. I know, I KNOW. That averages to around $50 per piece (some were less like the scarf, others were more like the dress). If that seems too salty for your budget, I am with you, because it was for mine, too.

    HOWever, there were some discounts to apply, which helped the cause. First, I had $75 of credit thanks to you sweet people who have signed up using my referral link. Thank you! However, that is not a perk exclusive to me. You can get $25 credit when a person uses your referral link (Stitch Fix gives you one when you get your first fix) to sign up AND schedule a fix. You don’t get the credit until the person’s set actually ships.

    So, if you would like to sign up, you can use my link (wink wink), and then Stitch Fix will give you your own link once you schedule your fix. THEN, share that link with your mom who will surely want to sign up, your sister, your best friend, your cousin, your aunt, etc, and basically FORCE them to schedule fixes, too! That right there is $100 in credit! You can also share your link on Facebook to help your cause. It’s worth a shot, right?

    My box was $252, then my $75 credit was applied, and then because I was keeping all 5 items, an additional 25% was taken off ($58), which made my box $119. This averages between $20-$25 per piece, which is very affordable in my book! I know that I have paid more than that for a shirt or dress at Target.

    I mentioned earlier that I considered not buying the blue dress because it was pretty pricey for what it was ($74). Had I not kept the blue dress, I would have not gotten the 25% off discount for buying all 5 items, and my total would have been $104. So, for $15 more, I could get the blue maxi dress.

    As you can tell, I am a huge fan of Stitch Fix, and I think busy women of all kinds will find something enjoyable about the experience! Do you know they now offer maternity and petite sizes? It almost makes me want to get pregnant again…

    Give it a whirl! Use my referral link, which gets me $25 credit! My next fix comes in June. I’m anxious to see what they will send me for Summer!

    Oh, and if you want to know where to snag my awesome white, plastic hanger… it’s Target.

  • the one about stitch fix, round two

    A few weeks ago, I wrote a review on my first Stitch Fix experience. I was very excited to schedule my second fix because I enjoyed the experience so much the first time around, and I wanted to see how the stylist used my feedback on the items I received to change her selections for me.

    I am happy to say that my second “fix” was even better than the first, and I ended up with the magical white unicorn I was seeking…the perfect pair of jeans!

    When I opened the box and glanced at my style cards, I knew I was going to be happy.

    (excuse the horrible photo; bad lighting + Instagram filter)

    I tried to take pictures of myself. It was a bad idea.

    The first item I pulled out was the brown Jaclynn 3/4 sSleeve Button-Up Cardigan. Honestly, I set this aside because I knew I most likely wasn’t going to keep it. Well, I would keep it only if it either a) made me look 35 pounds thinner or b) had the winning Powerball numbers inscribed on the tag. Sure, it was a nice, soft sweater, but I prefer my cardigans to be a little longer and less expensive. I did eventually try it on, and my suspicions were correct. It did not make me look 35 pounds lighter or reveal the winning lottery numbers…so into the return mailer it went.

    I wasn’t discouraged, however, because next up was the softest pair of jeans I have ever touched. I was in love, instantly, with the Just Black Adorra Ankle Length Skinny Jeans. From the color, which is a very, very dark denim, to the style (skinny bootcut), to the fabric (soft and slightly stretchy), I knew I was keeping these jeans. I was very excited when I pulled them on and they fit! They are very flattering, and I know that they will look great dressed up or dressed down. I really wish I could describe the feel of the denim, because it is truly unlike any other. I could tell my stylist really considered my feedback on the last pair of jeans they sent me, because these jeans are the polar opposite. I asked for no distressing or fading and a little stretch…and that’s what I received. Fist bump.

    I then pulled out this beautiful C.Luce Kailani Sleeveless Pleated Chiffon Dress. I was excited about this because I really enjoy this emerald color, and the fabric was flowy and elegant. However, when I tried it on, it was ill-fitting and made me look just a shade pregnant. And that’s not the look I’m going for. I have already been asked, in public, if I was pregnant when I was, in fact, not pregnant, and I don’t wish to relive that anytime soon. So, unfortunately, I said goodbye to the pretty green dress.

    Thankfully, there was a second dress in the bunch that was a winner, the Renee C Gael 3/4 Sleeve Drawstring Waisted Dress. I specifically asked for a dress I could wear to Mexico, and this dress will do the trick. It is a lightweight, chiffon-like fabric in a great navy color. The stylist took into consideration my transitioning body and pointed out that the draw string at the waist would be flattering as the pounds come off hopefullydearGodtheybetter. I think this dress can be worn very casually with sandals or flats, or it can be dressed up with the right jewelry and shoes. I think it is also a contender for Shiloh’s baptism. This is a keeper!

    Lastly, I picked up this deep pink Papermoon Preston Button Front Blouse. It is a soft, airy weight that has sweet gold buttons all the way down the front. This shirt is really perfect for me because it is relaxed without being frumpy, flowy without being “tent-ish,” and a vibrant color that will work for Spring and Summer. It also is breastfeeding-friendly, thanks to the buttons. I requested that my stylist consider tops that would be easy for nursing, and this one will do the trick.

    So, out of all five items, three of them already have the tags ripped off, and I wore the jeans for the rest of the day. I was very pleased with this fix and how the stylist referenced my Pinterest style board and my feedback in her note to me. I could tell that she tried to find things that were on my wish list, but again were things that I might not consider if I was shopping alone. I typically shy away from dresses with a drawstring waist because I really have no contoured waist, but what I found was that this style was very flattering and actually gave the appearance of an actual waistline.

    The sweater that I purchased from my last fix is one that I absolutely live in. Like…I sleep in it sometimes. It is so soft and stretchy, perfect for nursing, great with yoga pants or jeans, awesome for lounging or wearing it out in public. It has washed up well, and I can tell I will be wearing it for a long time. I am so happy that I made that purchase.

    Since I did spend a decent chunk of change on this round, I am going to pace myself. I’m going to schedule a fix for late April so that I can get some great new pieces for Summer. I basically lived in maternity tanks and underwear last year, and I don’t think I can get away with that this time (but you never know).

    If you would like to give Stitch Fix a try, click on my referral link to get started! This will earn me $25 in credit, and it will get you a really fun and personal shopping experience.

    https://www.stitchfix.com/referral/3404713


  • the one about my first stitch fix

    Sometime between child 0 and child 3, I lost my desire to shop for clothing for myself. Sure, I will randomly pick up an $8 v-neck tee from Target or a flowy top on clearance, but in general, shopping for clothing for myself leaves me extremely frustrated and, honestly, exhausted.

    For me to actually take the time to shop for something that fits me correctly, flatters my ever-changing pre/post-pregnancy figure, and is of any kind of quality to speak of, I would have to either arrange a time to shop while my husband is home (either on the weekends or at night), hire a babysitter and go during the day, or just buy online and return what doesn’t work. Online shopping has become a new favorite thing of mine due to the hassle it is to take 3 children out to a store that most likely doesn’t (gasp) have carts. However, I have been in a bit of a style rut for, well, probably all of my life, and I find myself gravitating to the same styles and stores over and over again. There’s no one there to push me outside of my comfort zone or suggest something I might not have normally tried. 
    I have been hearing of this service for a few years now, but it has recently become quite mainstream. Stitch Fix is basically a cross between an online clothing store, a personal stylist, and a daring best friend. I decided to give it a try because I think I’m going to be on a decent non-pregnant stretch for a little bit, and I’m ready to buy some clothes that make me feel* at least like I somewhat have my stuff together. I always feel so much better about myself if I can manage to wear something that doesn’t involve a yoga pant of any kind (because we all know I don’t do yoga) or a shirt I slept in the night before. 
    *I don’t really have anything together. It’s about feeling like it.

    Stitch Fix assigns a personal stylist to you, and that person uses your profile, preferences, and feedback to pull 5 items for you to try on in the privacy of your own home. They are mailed to you in a pretty box, which makes you feel quite special* when you open it. 
    *I’m not really special. It’s about feeling like it.
    Enclosed with the items is a styling card that shows you how to wear each item and gives you two different ways to accessorize or change up the look. There’s a personal note from the stylist with some other helpful tips, too. Also enclosed is a return mailer for all of the items you do not wish to keep. The postage is prepaid, so all you have to do is put the items in the mailer and drop it at a USPS mailbox. 
    The cost is $20 for the “styling fee.” The $20 is credited to you if you choose to purchase any of the items. If you don’t purchase any, you are just out the $20. If you purchase all of your items, you receive a 25% discount, which is pretty awesome.
    To sign up, you fill out a pretty extensive style profile. You tell your height, weight, clothing sizes, and style/color preferences. You are shown a number of various outfit ideas, and you can indicate whether you like, love, or hate each style genre. You can identify what types of clothes you would like to receive more or less of. For me, I wanted more casual looks because I have a pretty casual life style, but I wanted just a little bit of dressy clothes thrown in every now and then. You can tell the stylist whether you want accessories pulled for you and how much (in a general sense) you want to pay for each type of clothing item. I said “the cheaper the better” for everything except jeans. I’m willing to pay more for those because I basically wear jeans down to the threads. 
    You answer a lot of questions so that your stylist can get an idea of what you may like or absolutely hate. You can also attach a link to your style board on Pinterest, which is very helpful as your stylist “gets to know you.”
    There is even a place to leave a personal note to the stylist, and I provided more information about what I was looking for. I wanted tops that were easy to breastfeed in, and I also was looking for a dress to wear to Cancun next month. 
    Lastly, you schedule “your fix.” When I signed up, I scheduled mine to arrive in about 4-5 weeks. You can also schedule them to come automatically, or you can just schedule them on your own time frame. I didn’t set up any automatic shipments because I wanted to see how I liked the experience first. They insist you can cancel any time. 
    I scheduled mine to arrive at the end of January, so I was so excited when I saw that my fix had shipped and would arrive about a week earlier than I anticipated. When I heard the mailman place it on my doorstep, I couldn’t wait to open it up and try everything on.
    I had been warned by friends who use this service that it takes a couple of fixes for the stylist to get it right. I knew that there was a strong chance that I would be sending everything back after the first shipment, so I didn’t want to get my hopes up. 
    ^Note to stylist: I am not taking my kids with me to Mexico. Praise Jesus.
    When I pulled out the  Brixon Ivy Kahlia Lace Sheath Dress, I knew that this would be a “return.” It was much too structured and had a formal feel. To be fair, I did say I would allow some of these types of clothes, but this wasn’t the type of dress I was wanting to take to Mexico. It would be a great fancy party dress or wedding reception outfit, but it wasn’t screaming “90 degrees in Mexico!” I loved the color, though.
    I was excited to see I received a pair of jeans. I desperately need new jeans, and the Target jeans I have been wearing (basically since birth) are nearly falling apart. They are stretched out, faded, and are ready to be tossed. The jeans my stylist sent me were Mavi Gold Ruxi Distressed Boyfriend jeans. When I tried them on, I realized that I really couldn’t keep them because they were far too distressed. I don’t care to buy jeans with holes already in them, and the “distressing” on the pockets and rear looked too young on me. I am going to be 31, and I don’t want to look like I’m trying to be 19. 
    Next, I tried on the Papermoon Jamie Knit Top. I loved the softness, but I didn’t care for the horizontal stripes (clearly my stylist has never been fat), and the metallic threads in the stripes looked too juvenile again. The top was a little too big and didn’t flatter me. 
    I was sent a pretty gold necklace that my stylist thought I could take to Mexico with me. It was a great idea in theory, but I don’t pay more than $5 for my costume jewelry because, well, I have 3 kids. They pull, yank, and destroy any jewelry they can grab. 
    The item I did decide to keep was the burgundy Market & Spruce Aleah Heathered V-Neck Dolman top. In general, I don’t like dolman tops (the ones that kind of look like you have bat wings when you spread your arms out). I honestly wasn’t going to even try this shirt on because I never really care for these tops on the hanger, but Stitch Fix is about getting you to try new things, so I put it on. I was glad I did, as this top was super soft and stretchy, and it flattered my figure. I loved the color, as it reminded me of Pantone’s color of the year, Marsala. The v-neck will make it easy to nurse in, and I felt it was very versatile for my lifestyle. 
    So, 1 out of the 5 items was a keeper, and I was just fine with that. 
    What’s next? Well, I logged on to my account, and went through the checking out process. It was very, very easy. You simply click “Keeping” or “Returning” next to each item, and you give feedback on each piece. You can rate the fit, style, price, and size in addition to leave further comments. I was pretty honest, which you need to be in order to help the stylist know your style.
    The top I purchased was a $48 top, but the $20 styling fee was credited to me, so technically I paid $28 plus tax. The other items are already back in the return mailer, and I will drop those off later today. I made my choices quickly, but you have 3 days to decide.
    What I absolutely love about this service is that you can try on the items in your home, in real lighting, in front of real mirrors. You can do it at your own pace. You can get feedback from friends or a spouse, or you can do it completely alone. Your kids can be sleeping in the next room. You can use your own accessories and other clothing items to dress up or dress down each piece, and this gives you a realistic idea of whether or not you will actually wear the item. Sure, I could just buy clothes in the store and try them on at home (which is what I do IF I actually buy anything for myself at a store) and then return what I don’t like, but that then requires another trip out to the store. Stitch Fix has nailed the convenience factor, which is a dream for busy women (not just moms). 
    Are the clothes more expensive than I would normally buy? Yes. I don’t normally pay $48 for a shirt. However, I will not be using Stitch Fix to completely fill my closet. I am using it to add some higher-quality items to my wardrobe as well as help me discover styles, colors, and designs that are flattering and work with my existing clothing items. Now that I know how flattering the dolman top is, I can look for those at less expensive stores and it saves me the trouble of knowing whether or not it is going to work for me. 
    I plan to receive fixes every couple of months as the seasons change. I did schedule another fix for 2 weeks from now, as I am interested to see how they use my feedback to change their selections for me, and I am still on the hunt for great jeans. My Target Meronas are going to bite the dust any minute now, so the sooner I get new jeans, the better!
    Overall, it was a great experience. I enjoyed receiving this type of fun mail, and I loved how seamless and easy the whole process was from start to finish. I have heard from other friends that if you receive something in the wrong size but still like the style, they will exchange it with the right size so long as they have it in stock. 
    If you are interested in trying Stitch Fix, you can use my referral link (which does earn me $25 if you schedule a fix). 
    You don’t really have anything to lose but $20 (and that is if you sent everything back), but you have a whole new, fun experience to gain! 

    I feel I should let it be known that Stitch Fix did not pay me to write a review. I mean…duh. No one would pay me to write a review.