• The one about how we have hope

    I see it a lot on social media — this sentence.

    “I am afraid to bring my child into this world.”

    And I totally understand that fear. Things seem really scary out there. Rarely does a month pass without news of a threat or act of terror, a mass shooting, or economic crisis. We have politicians we can’t trust. We have leaders we can’t follow. We have so many opinions and not enough facts.


    But ya’ll, the worst thing we could ever do is not bring another child into this world. We can argue about politics all day long and make absolutely no progress with each other. We can debate religion, racism, privilege, and many other major social issues and spin our wheels for hours on end. But can we not universally agree that with each new life, we have new hope?

    We have hope for more peacemakers. Children who become adults who put an end to violence. Children who become adults who use their words to express their thoughts and feelings and not their fists or their weapons. We have hope.

    We have hope for more innovators. Children who become adults who use their minds to create, heal, and invent. Children who become adults who make incurable illnesses curable and impossible tasks possible. We have hope.

    We have hope for more artists. Children who become the adults who appreciate the beauty in the ordinary. Children who become the adults who use their hands, bodies, voices, and minds to color the world. We have hope.

    We have hope for more includers. Children who become the adults who accept, invite, and embrace, and love. Children who become the adults who use their hearts and souls to soften and shape those around them. We have hope.

    Here’s the deal, though. We, the parents, have the job of teaching these future peacemakers, innovators, artists, and includers. These future entrepreneurs, activists, leaders, and champions. We have to show them the way.

    We have an incredible responsibility.

    But we also have hope.

     

     

     

  • make latte at home

    the one about kicking my Starbucks habit

    A few weeks ago, I drank my last Mocha from Starbucks.

    In fact, because I knew that the next day was Ash Wednesday (the beginning of Lent), I got a Mocha in the morning and a Mocha that night. I may have been wired and jittery until 2 a.m., but that second one was a must. You see, I “gave up” Starbucks for Lent this year, and I wanted to be sure to enjoy it to its fullest on this Fat Tuesday.

    The next day, on the first day of Lent, I was met with regret. Why did I sacrifice something I loved so much? (duh, also known as the point of Lent) Noelle even said, “Oh great. Now we will have a grumpy mom until Easter.” My whole family recognized how much I depended on Starbucks to get me through the day — which was probably reason enough for me to separate myself from it for a while. Clearly, my habit had grown out of control.

    Starbucks is lovely and has been responsible for my good moods hundreds of times over the last few years, but it isn’t cheap. Following the birth of our 4th child, I was finding myself in the drive-thru almost daily. Not only was I buying coffee, I was also buying my kids cake pops and chocolate milk and sneaking in cinnamon swirl coffee cake for me, too. Some days, my total would be $13, but I didn’t care because my kids were happy and I was happy and I snuck in a few quiet minutes of drive time while sipping my favorite cup of joy. Not only was this becoming an expensive habit, it was also an unhealthy one. The calories in the coffee and the coffee cake were equivalent to a full meal (not to mention the sugar), and my kids were developing unhealthy habits with the cake pops and chocolate milk.

    So when Starbucks all of a sudden was gone, and cheating on my sacrifice was not an option because I told my children what I was doing (and they will hold me to it), I knew I needed to figure out a way to enjoy coffee at home. Most days, Luke drinks his coffee black or with just a small amount of flavored creamer. I personally prefer my coffee some shade between light tan and off-white, so this concept of “black coffee” was absolutely disgusting to me.

    Luke mentioned to me the idea of purchasing a milk frother. A guy he works with suggested it, and I decided it was worth a try. On my next trip to Target, I purchased a frother, which to my surprise was really inexpensive. I picked up some Belgian Chocolate creamer, medium roast coffee, whole milk, too. I was determined to make this work.

    Even though it was after dark when I got home, I immediately tested my new gadget. Following the directions, I warmed about a 1/4 cup of milk up in my mug for about 30 seconds. I frothed it for about 3-5 seconds, and then I brewed the coffee via my Keurig machine. Lastly, I added the creamer. I swirled it all around with a spoon and committed to my first taste of my new creation.

    And it. was. awesome.

    Creamy. Frothy. Smooth. No bitterness. No acidity. Appropriately sweet. No aftertaste.

    I remember dying for a few seconds and then returning to life with this beautiful, warm, perfectly brewed cup of bliss in my hands. I know that sounds a little dramatic, but that’s truly how it felt. To know that I could enjoy coffee at home without spending $4.50 a cup and consuming 300 calories/30 grams of sugar was a huge relief. I am keeping track of the money I would be spending at Starbucks and will write a check for that amount to my church at the end of Lent.

    I have enjoyed using my milk frother daily (many days, twice daily) for the past few weeks, and I honestly don’t know that I will ever choose to get Starbucks over my own coffee again (GASP). If we are traveling and not in a place where I can make my own, I’m sure I will indulge, but I don’t miss it at all. I bought a large supply of to-go coffee cups from Sam’s Club, and now I can still feel like I fit in at Target — you know, with all the moms sipping their Starbucks as they saunter down every aisle.

    If you want to make latte-like coffee at home for a fraction of the price and calories/sugar, I highly suggest “investing” in a milk frother. I put “investing” in quotes because I paid $7 for mine. I know there are many different styles out there, but this hand-held cheapie has done the trick, and it doesn’t take up hardly any space on your counter.

    I purchased mine at Target, but you can find a similar one right here on Amazon.

    After you have purchased your frother, here are the steps to success for making an amazing cup of coffee at home.

    1. Pour 1/4 to 1/3 cup of milk (can use any kind– I use whole or 2%) in a mug.

    2. Microwave the milk for 30 seconds. Trust me here. Milk that is not warm enough will not have stable foam. It will bubble, but then the foam will disappear and the drink will not taste creamy.

    3. Froth the milk for 3-5 seconds. It doesn’t take long!

    4. Add your coffee – either via your Keurig or traditional brewer.

    5. Add your creamer or sweetener of choice.

    6. Gently stir to evenly distribute the flavors and texture. If you have good foam, it shouldn’t disappear even after you have stirred.

    Enjoy!

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  • project 365-2017; photo catch-up

    When I was admitted to the hospital at 32 weeks with preterm labor in April, my photo project had to take a back seat. This was a big bummer because I had made it to 100 days without stopping. I had every intention of getting back on the wagon when I returned home, but once I broke the habit, it became daunting to start back up again.

    I have been taking photos again here and there. Luke bought me a new lens for Mother’s Day that I have been excited to use. Since Leo’s arrival in late May, I have wanted to capture every second with him.

    Here is a little photo catch-up of the last month or so. This project, to me, is also about not giving up when I was thrown a curve ball, so here’s hoping I can keep going.

     Easter Sunday (and a rare photo with me in it)
    Shiloh’s haul from our small little egg hunt in the backyard. 
     
    Luke enjoying some snuggles in the hammock with Shiloh. 
    The girls put their new umbrellas to good use. We had a lot of rain in April.
      Charlotte taking care of baby Moana in the rain. 
       
     
    Noelle had a great year and is really excited for 2nd grade! 
    Charlotte had such a great preschool experience and already misses her teacher so much.
    There is something about this sweet face…
    Baby Leo joined our family in May.
    I can’t resist baby toes!
     
    No more pictures, Mama.
    Right now, Leo looks like the perfect mix of Charlotte and Noelle.
     
    He is a wonderful, easy-going baby. How did we ever live without him before?
  • project 365-2017; days 99-105

    We have crossed the 100 day mark in this photo project. There are times when it feels like a very difficult task to pick up my camera and find something to photograph. Maybe I am tired. Maybe it hasn’t been a great day. Maybe I am not inspired. But… I take the picture anyway.

    This week brought us Easter preparations mixed with daily randomness. We enjoyed dying Easter eggs in addition to visiting our property to snip daffodils put in vases…incredibly small moments smushed together to represent a week in the life of a mama with three very precocious girls.

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    Noelle had a turn with the yardwork, so these little ones needed a turn, too.

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    “HEYYYYY!” Shiloh wasn’t impressed that her Jenga blocks fell over so easily.

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    Mismatched outfits and a veggie straw sword fight. Sounds about right. 
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    The daffodils on our new property have hit their fullest potential this week, so we have enjoyed snipping a few to enjoy in our home. I snapped this of Noelle and now can’t stop staring it. She is just so beautiful. Her blue eyes, freckly skin, and curly hair make her a classic beauty. You also have to love the toothless smile.

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    Noelle’s class at school put on a play about the death and resurrection of Jesus. Here Noelle is reading the second station of the cross as Jesus stands behind her. It was a really powerful presentation, and I am so thankful that Noelle understands the actual reason for celebrating Easter.

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    The girls enjoyed dying their Easter eggs. Always a tedious process, so I am thankful we could be outside for this messy tradition.

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    It hit 85 degrees over the weekend, so the girls were anxious to have some water play time. I unearthed the water table from behind the tool shed. I was a little afraid to pull it out as I didn’t know what creatures were living in the murky water that settled in the table…but I was brave and scrubbed it clean. 

    Bonus Photos:
    Here are a few more from our daffodil adventures this week…

     

  • project 365-2017; days 92-98

    This week, the weather was absolutely crazy. We had rain, sun, wind, and even temperatures that could support snow flurries (although I don’t think we actually got any). You have to love Indiana weather!

    The girls are itching to get outside any chance they have, so we put them to work in our yard. Noelle loves riding her bike down our street while we watch. It is impressive how quickly she has gained the confidence to ride.

    Other highlights of the week, not all necessarily pictured but highlights nonetheless, Shiloh had her first haircut (at the age of 2 1/2 years old), Charlotte used her last Pull-Up at bedtime (and stayed dry all night), and I spent the entire weekend organizing, purging, and cleaning in preparation for the baby’s arrival. My nesting instinct is going crazy, and I know none of it “really matters,” but it makes me feel better to at least be productive….even when my body is screaming at me to just lay down.

    We are anxiously awaiting the day when our little guy can be in these daily photos — but until then…

    92/365
    The girls found this old camera in a drawer and have been enjoying “taking pictures” around the house. Shiloh was taking a picture of me….or of her eye….it’s debatable.
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    Charlotte has sworn off naps for quite some time now, so when she passes out on her own during the day, it is a pretty big deal. I think she is growing, because I have caught her napping on the couch couple times this week.
    94/365
    Charlotte picked “a scary show” on Netflix (it was Room on the Broom which is a cartoon adaptation of a children’s book), and Shiloh was “skeered.” 

    95/365

     I took all three girls to get haircuts this week, but this was Shiloh’s first cut! She sat perfectly still and did a great job! 

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    Luke has been a great “girl dad” for all these years, but I think he is counting the minutes until we add our sweet boy to the family. 

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    We put the girls to work spreading fertilizer this week. They were excited to help (and we were happy to let them).

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    We enjoyed a family dinner with Luke’s family this weekend. The highlight for Charlotte was helping give her cousin, Magnolia, a bath in the sink. I think they both loved it!