• the one about the tree house: house history & holy ________!

    It has been unseasonably warm in our area for most of Winter, and we have had very little precipitation, so we really wanted to take advantage of that with regards to our project. The sooner we can get started, the sooner we can be living in it, right?

    Well, “real” demo started this week. I have posted some photos of the process up to this point, but maybe I wasn’t clear — the project is not a renovation per se. The project is basically a tear down of the existing house structure with a renovation of the basement and the garage (plus one room off the garage that will be included in the new house).

    A few questions you might be asking (and questions we have asked ourselves) are:

    Why tear down an existing house just to rebuild a new one in that spot? 

    We went back and forth on this idea so many times. When we originally began this journey, remodeling the entire house was the plan. We were going to deal with the “interesting” layout and footprint of the house and simply do cosmetic renovations to bring it up to date and into our style. We also wanted to add on so that we would have a larger living space and more bedrooms.

    We soon learned that task was going to be really tricky. The house was originally built in 1942. It was a pre-fab “Gunnison” home that was basically delivered to the site as a kit (we have all the original photos of the original home building process — it’s fascinating!). These homes were popular in post-war times because they were able to get homes up very quickly and pretty inexpensively.

    However, 70+ years later, the home had some quirks. The interior wall thickness was about 2 inches thick. Imagine having a family of 4 children and 2 inch-thick walls! Also, because the house was designed to fit together in a certain way, moving or removing these walls would jeopardize the structural integrity of the home. This left us very little wiggle room when it came to altering the floor plan to meet our large family’s needs.

    The house had been updated in phases over the years. The original house did not include the existing garage, so the newer garage that you see today was added and a room was built to connect the new garage to the existing house. This created some interesting roof lines and basically a very long rectangular shape to the home.

    When we started getting ideas with regards to how much money it would cost to replace the aluminum siding on the house…to put new floors throughout…to update the bathrooms and add on another bathroom…to make the current bedrooms larger and add on another one… to replace the windows, the roof, and interior fixtures… we realized that renovating was going to cost just as much, if not more, than if we would just start from scratch with our “dream home” in mind.

    Couldn’t you have just left the current house in its place and built somewhere else on your property?

    We could have done this. We looked into it, for sure. However, we weren’t thrilled with the idea of knocking down a bunch of beautiful trees to make room for a new home when we could use the perfectly good home site that has already been developed. In fact, where the house sits now is perfect as it is visible from the road, but not too close to the road, either. We like that you have views of the woods in all directions and that there is still a yard around the property for our children to run and play in.

    Just next to the house is a large, open field that produces thousands of daffodils each spring. It is a beautiful sight to see and something we intend to preserve. The previous owner of the house enjoyed cutting daffodils and taking them to the hospital to be distributed to patients and the cafeteria for decoration. We would love to carry on this tradition and include our girls, too. Putting a home in that large, open space would ruin the field of daffodils, and that is not something we ever wanted to do.

    So, taking down the home and using the existing site seemed to be the best choice for us. We made a pretty decent promise to the previous owner that the land would be our priority and that we would do everything we could to make sure that the property (trees, flowers, animals, trails, etc) remained in-tact.

    Don’t you have any appreciation for the history of the home? Why does everything have to be “new?”

    No one has actually asked me this. However, I often wonder if we are giving the impression that we do not care about what has sat on the land for 70+ years and all the history and memories attached. I am probably the most sentimental person you will meet. It is hard for me to part with anything that my children have touched. When we moved from our first house in Indianapolis to Muncie, we had a pink swing in the front tree that Noelle used to love. It was attached to the tree branch with these black woven straps. Well, shortly after we moved out (like, days after), the tree collapsed due to a lightning strike, and it was going to get cut up and hauled away. I made Luke go back to the tree an hour away to retrieve the black straps of the baby swing because I couldn’t deal with the thought of them getting hauled away with the cut up tree branches. See? I am super sentimental about things that are kind of ridiculous.

    So, I am sensitive to the fact that we are tearing down a perfectly fine house that has been someone’s place to raise children and grandchildren for many, many years. We could have lived there and dealt with the quirks and been just fine.

    However, this was our shot for our “dream house.” We have lived in an apartment and two different homes throughout the (almost) 10 years of our marriage. We are currently in the largest of those three dwellings, a 2,000 square-foot, 3-bedroom home (that we have loved for nearly 6 years). We have been dreaming of having a place that is big enough for our family to spread out but is laid out in the right way to bring us all together (at once, in the same room, with enough space for everyone to sit). Luke’s immediate family alone is very large, and we long for the days of being able to host gatherings that are comfortable and welcoming. We have so many people we can’t wait to bring into our home for parties, holidays, bonfires, and church events (and more). We want to share our property with people we love and make it a special place for them, too.

    There are pieces of the home that reflect its history and original style that we hope to reuse in the new version. There are beautiful, solid wood doors from the basement that we hope to refinish and use as our interior doors throughout the house. We are keeping an original fireplace in the home and hope to give it new life. There is an amazing concrete sink in the basement that has to be used somehow — I just haven’t figured it out, yet.

    I maintain that the real history is not in the wood and nails of the original house structure. It is in the trees. It is in the daffodils that my husband and his brothers helped plant when they were in high school. It is in the trails that lead to any which way of 40 acres. It is in the birds and other animals who call the woods their home. I can’t wait for my girls to make their own memories out there — out of the house…regardless of how new and awesome it may be.

    Now that you know a little bit of the history of the house, I will show you the demo progress of this week alone. It is a bit terrifying. When you drive by, it definitely looks like something horrible happened — a fire, a tornado, a crime of some sort. However, this is all part of the plan. The old will come down. The new will go up.

    Siding has been taken off; most windows out; room on far left is the newer garage that will not be torn down

    Chimney down (from a second fireplace we will not be keeping)

    Interior view; insulation everywhere (among lots of other breathing hazards)

    The girls couldn’t believe what it looked like!

    Action shot of some of the house coming down

    The yellow wall you see was an interior wall to the room that used to stand in the gap; to the right of this space is the original house (built in 1942); to the left is the original garage; outside of the frame of the photo is the new garage that we will be keeping. 


    The adventure continues.
  • project 365-2017; days 50-56

    As we finish out the month of February and look forward to March, I can’t help but be completely stunned that two full months of 2017 are over. A mild winter has put us in the mood for Spring, and we are anxiously awaiting the arrival of our little boy in a couple months. While this project helps me to pause and remember to enjoy life’s little moments within the chaos of each day, I also think it is a reminder that time is flying by around us. It doesn’t seem possible that I have been doing this challenge for 56 days, but I have the photo evidence to prove it.

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    Oh, boy. So on this beautiful, sunny day, we decided that Noelle was far too old to have training wheels on her bike (that is far too small for her)! We told her that if she could learn to ride without training wheels on this bike, we would get her a new bike for her birthday. She was pretty motivated to try, but she struggled initially with the fear of falling. We will get there! In the meantime, please observe her awesome outfit…helmet, crazy pants, and cowboy boots. 

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    Dinner time is always an adventure. You never know what meals the kids will love and what meals they will hate. Charlotte is our worst eater. She is so picky. When she was a baby and younger toddler, she would eat anything! She used to eat black beans by the can and blueberries by the container. Now she would prefer that everything be in nugget form. So, we keep trying. And she keeps being Charlotte at dinner time.

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    When you go looking for Shiloh and you find her on a bed of folded laundry, fast asleep.

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    I try not to allow too much “screen time”…. but sometimes you cannot beat the peace it brings.

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    Charlotte had her first official dentist appointment. She had a little bit of nerves while we were waiting, but playing with this alligator-dentist toy helped. She did so great… no cavities!

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    More freak weather for our area this week. It was literally 70 degrees this morning. Shiloh and I enjoyed some bubbles in the driveway. 

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    We went from golden sun and 70+ degrees to 28 degrees with snow in about a 12 hour time span. I always knew Indiana weather was ridiculous, but this has truly been a record. I totally had to bribe Charlotte with jelly beans to go outside and take this picture (and doesn’t she look adorable in my hat?). 

  • the one about the tree house: appraisal, more meetings, and a demo plan

    Well, here we are, days away from our “March” start date, and we are really close to hitting that mark. It is truly incredible how slow-moving some parts of this process can be, but we are trying to stay the course and follow the steps required to turn this house into our dream home.

    We received our appraisal of our total finished property (new house with the land). Now that we have that, we can get the loan process officially going as the bank will have a valuation of the house to use as a goal. When you have a property and a house plan that is unlike anything else in the county, it is difficult to find a “comparable” to use to determine the value (and thus the amount of money the bank is willing to loan you). Regardless, the appraisal is done and looks to be favorable for us, so we are hopeful we will be able to get the financing we need to make this dream a reality.

    I won’t lie. It is incredibly scary that this is actually looking like it is going to happen. Often times, it is more fun to daydream and say “someday” than to actually dive in and go for it. When you think about attaching real money to this project, it gets a little overwhelming. Many days, I walk around our current, 2000 square foot home, and I think, “I can be happy here forever.” Sure, there are things about this house that I wish I could change. We have three bedrooms (two of which are quite small), and soon to be six people living here. It is time for us to make a change, but a part of me just wants to keep things exactly how they are.

    Not a week goes by that Luke doesn’t meet someone at the property to discuss something. I will admit, it feels a little like he has a second wife. He is gone a lot during the little time we have together as a family. We haven’t had a real date in a really long time. Every spare minute and soon-to-be every spare cent will be thrown into this project. I have to commend him, however…again, for all the time he has taken to research different ideas and track down the people who can help us. Doing this “yourself” is not easy….but we are thankful for the Internet, YouTube, Google, and a few special people who keep helping us along the way.

    A demo plan has been hashed out with our main carpenter. He is ready to go ahead and pull this house apart, and I think we are ready to let him! I think that will be a real “oh shit” moment when we no longer see a house standing on the property. We are far past the point of no return — we might as well go all the way now.

    Last night, Luke asked me if we were crazy for taking on so much at once (new baby, new house, sell old house). I mean, honestly, we might be crazy, but I am one who thinks if things are going to be crazy and chaotic anyway, and any of those three — bringing home a new baby, building a house, and selling a house — would be very chaotic in and of themselves, we might as well go for it all at once and disrupt our lives one time instead of three. We will no doubt continue to test our patience, our love, and our positive thinking, but I think it is going to pay off for us in the end.

    While we wait for the action to really begin, we have enjoyed going out to the property and letting the girls play and explore. We are so excited to give them the gift of growing up out there. Let the memories begin.

  • project 365-2017; days 43-49

    Another week of February gone….and another week of above normal temperatures. We have enjoyed some (freakishly) beautiful weather these past several days. Our family is all finally on the mend from our taking our turns with sickness. Impressively, the man of the house’s cold has seemed to linger the longest…. 😉

    I hope you enjoy another peek into our world.

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    Noelle is obsessed with coloring, drawing, and anything ART. She loves to make pictures, cards, notes, and booklets. She copies things she sees in books, movies, and TV, but she also makes up her own doodles, too. She’s also super protective of these new, pointy crayons. Don’t think about mixing them with her sisters’ stumpy, broken crayons.
    44/365
    Noelle’s favorite Spelling Choice homework activity is SpellingCity.Com. I am thankful that she never fights me on homework. I know it won’t always be like that.

    45/365

    For Valentine’s Day, I made a special dinner at home for Luke and the girls, complete with plastic “wine” glasses (we drank sparkling grape juice), fancy plates, flowers, and chocolate fondue for dessert. Shiloh was a fan. 

    46/365
    Noelle had a great check up at the dentist. We love Dr. Trout’s office and how good they are with the girls. She is keeping her teeth strong and healthy (what’s left of them…). No cavities!
    47/365
    It’s the little things.

    48/365
    This golden sunshine is Heaven-sent. The girls have loved playing outside so much this week. Noelle even dozed off for a few minutes on the tire swing.

    49/365
    We went early to mass on Saturday evening so the girls could play on the school playground in the warm sun. Yep, Charlotte…you ARE awesome.

  • project 365-2017; days 29-42

    I bet you thought I quit on this little challenge, huh?

    The truth is, last week was way too busy for me to make an actual post, but thankfully I continued to pick up my camera, even when I didn’t want to. So this week’s post has 2 weeks’ worth of photos in it for your viewing pleasure.

    The sickness reached us this week. Noelle and Charlotte both battled fevers, aches, dizziness, and chills for a couple of days, and this tired, pregnant mama also has a sweet little version of a cold to deal with. We already know mamas don’t get sick days, so we have been surviving the best we can.

    Mother nature continues to screw with us here in Indiana. We have had 50-60 degree temperature days and 20 degree days with 3 inches of snow all in the same week. We are rapidly approaching Spring and we couldn’t be more excited!

    Disclaimer: Please note that in many of these photos, Shiloh is wearing the same clothes. This is not because I took multiple photos on the same day. It is because I have reached the stage in pregnancy where I am lazy. If the shirt is clean-ish and she wants to wear it 3 days in a row, I let her. Favorites around here are any shirt with a dog on it. She also usually is not wearing pants.

    Here we go!

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    A messy play room drives me nuts, but the sight of this little one quietly loving on her baby makes it not as unbearable. 

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    Luke is attempting to play a game with all three while I make dinner. I don’t know which is the more daunting task.

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    Shiloh is unfortunately phasing out of her regular nap time, which seems a little premature given that she is only 2 1/2. However, if I can get her still for long enough, she usually falls asleep for at least a little while. Today’s spot of choice was on the couch while watching the iPad.

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    It was Catholic Schools Week, which is a week where the kiddos get to have fun with assemblies, pep sessions, dress days, and other special events. This was an important day because the Bishop was visiting and eating lunch with the students. Noelle was so excited and wanted me to do her hair in the “special, big curls” so that she would look extra spiffy. 

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    Sleeping Shiloh photos never get old. Because she soon won’t be my youngest baby. And because she won’t always do that thing that babies do with their thumbs/index fingers when they sleep.

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    We do books every night. These girls have such a great dad to get excited about Disney Princesses. P.S. Tell me everyone else has this much junk on their couch at any given time. No? Lie to me then.

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    We are spoiled with lots and lots of ultrasounds and pictures of this little guy thanks to some monitoring I need during pregnancy. I can’t help but think that he looks like his biggest sister in this one.
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    Nothing more fun than crazy bathtub hair.

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    Noelle is obsessed with Lego sets. She built this little mini set before school this morning.

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    Shiloh got into the Bananagrams game and ended up spilling half of them on the floor. Oops!

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    I think I had just finished telling someone that Noelle is our healthiest child (all of them are super healthy, really), and then I got a call from the school that she had a 103 degree fever. She spent the next two days like this, but she is better now.

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    Shiloh thought the snowfall made the window a little too bright during her morning coloring. Good thing she had her shades.

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    Super noisy image (noisy = photographer’s term for lots of grain) due to this being taken with darkness outside, near darkness inside (our living room is not well-lit), and not my best lens to handle such a task but I had to be quick. I tell myself years down the road I won’t care how much grit is in the image…I will just be happy that I captured the moment the girls had a dance party with their Papa. Not pictured: Noelle who was happily performing a solo dance routine in the corner.
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    After 2-3 inches of snow, we got another 60 degree day by the end of the week. I loved coming home to these chalky handprints on the driveway after a day of errands.